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Evite & Fundraisers

August 2, 2006   

I don’t really have a problem with people I know personally using Evite to invite me to fundraiser events. However, I have a strongly viceral negative reaction to people giving my email address to other people — or worse, organizations — I don’t know at all who are having fundraisers. It doesn’t matter if it’s an issue I strongly support; it’s simply horrifically rude to basically give away my contact info to a unknown party without my consent.

I think it particularly bothers me with Evites because everytime I get one, I assume it’s a personal invite. To have a random stranger’s fundraiser mixed in with my friends’ invitations is a real pisser, because it feels like they are masquerading as friends and invading my personal space.

Seriously, don’t do it.

2 Comments
Becky in Oakland
August 2, 2006 at 11:14 pm

What if one of my friends is having a fabulous event (not necessarily a fundraiser) and asks that I invite other friends? Can I then forward it on to you? I ask b/c my friend CD has moved to the East Bay and will likely be having a jewelry trunk show in the fall and think it would be great fun if you and Uyen join me.

ei-nyung
August 3, 2006 at 11:02 am

Oh yeah, that is totally different, because you, my friend, is forwarding it to me, instead of a random stranger inviting me without explaining how they know me.

That would be fun!

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